srauterkus,
do not give up...you will be SO happy once you have fully transitioned!
this does take time and patience, as you are learning!
have you incorporated a natural oil in your regime? your scalp and hair desperately needs this.
do you have any photos of your hair we can see to offer more solid advice?
also, how often are you co wash, i hope not every morning...this can lead to over conditioing.