Welcome Waywavy1308! I'm so glad that you joined the forum as well!
Well, even though I am not Mahisha, I wanted to saay this. From what you have wrote you definitely sound like you have gone through a change in hairtexture as you have matured. This is common and it happens to a lot of people.
Also, from what you have wrote, it sounds like your curls is of the Type 2 variety. And, the products that would ork for you would be the Curls Curliscious Cleansing Cream, Curls Asian Hair Tea Conditioner, Curls Quenched Moisturizer, Curls Godess Glaze (for maximum hold, frizz protection, & extra curl definition) or Curls Milkshake (will make your curls look smother, frizz free, and extra soft). The Glaze is the styling product that you would go with only if you are someone who desires more hold to their curls and has a very big problem with frizz. As, it offers the most hold and frizz protection out of all of the Curls products. And, the Milkshake is a lightweight creamy product that will deliver added smoothness to your curls. And, because it isn't as dense as Curls Souffle or Curls Whipped Cream it would be perfect to use on your Type 2 natural curls. So, if you are looking for something lightweight that will leave your curls softer, smoother, yet nicely defined, then Curls Milkshake would be your best bet.