You have a few choices...you can grow it out (which takes time and patience), cut off all of the chemicals, or cut half of it off and get regular trims (~ 3-4") every 3 months to speed up the process. Unfortunately, there isn't a quick fix for this situation...you will have to do what is right for you.
Very important note: the point where your natural and your relaxed hair meet is THE most vulnerable...therefore is more likely to break if not properly handled and taken care of. You want to keep your hair well conditioned and hydrated to ensure a smooth transition.
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Ok...here are a few key steps that you must commit to.
1. You definitely need to start by getting a deep treatment with heat WEEKLY for the next few months. Invest in the Microhaircap, now available on our website (and a few plastic caps to cover your hair). This portable invention allows you to do chores, check email, etc. while conditioning at the same. You no longer have to sit under a hot dryer or go to a salon for deep treatment…invest $17 in a Microhaircap and do it yourself! Your hair needs a conditioner that is geared to replenish chemically altered hair. CURL Ecstasy Hair Tea conditiner will transform your dry, chemically damaged, over stressed tresses within minutes! This magical Asian tea formulation combines natural botanicals and vitamin packed extracts with rich, exotic emollients to moisturize, condition, strengthen and protect your delicate locks.
2. It is imperative that you moisturize your hair daily... Our Quenched Curls moisturizer is a great option. It softens the hair, eases comb ability, moisturizes and conditions, preps it for the next step, and leaves a little goodness behind. Use this daily.
3. Over shampooing and under conditioning are common culprits for dry, frizzy hair. Therefore, shampooing more than 1x a week is not recommended. I recommend shampooing 2-3x a month, for dry and/or damaged hair, and 1x a week for undamaged curly hair. On the other "shampoo-less" days do a conditioning rinse - rinse hair to remove styling products (this is where using the right products that are water soluble come in....such as our products), apply an ample amount of our conditioner, comb through, rinse and proceed with styling. Doing so will pump much needed moisture back into your hair without stripping away essential nutrients, rinse away unnecessary dirt and oil and give you a fresh clean start.
4. Also, using the right products, with quality ingredients is absolutely necessary. Avoid products with mineral and/or petrolatum oil in them...as both of these synthetic oils coat and suffocate the hair shaft, blocking moisture out...thus drying out the hair. If applied directly to the scalp, mineral and petrolatum oil can actually retard growth. If your hair requires oil, always opt for a natural oil such as our pure pomegranate oil...or jojoba, coconut, almond, etc. These natural oils actually penetrate and moisturize the hair. Also avoid drying products such as gel, hairspray and mousse. If you need curl hold, opt for curl enhancers, lotions and creams such as our Curls Milkshake.
I HIGHLY RECOMMEND THE CURLS MILKSHAKE DURING YOUR TRANSITION...YOU WILL LOVE IT!
It is the perfect leave in for all curlies...especially for those with needy, dry curls. Derived from natural milks (coconut and sweet almond milk), this moisturizing cream will bring life back to your overworked tresses. Curls Milkshake is the perfect product for transitioners. It helps to “bridge the gap” between the natural and relaxed hair and works well as “new growth smoother.”
5. Reduce the amount of times per month you heat process your hair. If you currently are doing so 3x a month, cut back to 2x a month with a goal of 1x a month MAX! This will ensure the health and integrity of your hair.
6. Make sure you get regular trims...starting off with an inch or two is a great idea!